15/02/13
- Saw Hema and Deepa for the first time this year, a day after Deepa's birthday.
Was nice to talk briefly with them outside their house, though I don't appreciate
the situation they're in and how it's being managed; it feels there's more to
it to Kumar caring for those girls than he's revealing... Went to Genting Highlands
with Vanajah and Shree; we took the cheapest lunch we could find, then went
to the casino. Vanajah made quite a good luck charm, as she helped me win RM100
on roulette, though unfortunately I lost RM140, so a RM40 loss overall, but
it was a good time. We then went round the theme park, and I finally got to
see a Lion Dance this CNY season (right), and the lion even charged at me and
bit me. Is that good luck?
08/02/13
- Went to Penang on Saturday with Ashwini and her family (left); we drove at
night and arrived and visited a temple in the morning for two of the family's
babies to have their head's shaved. We then toured around the island, visiting
other temples and tourist places... Managed to get myself a tuition student
within hours of posting an ad on mudah; teaching a 39yo man from Jordan, who
appears to be a student here... And lastly a Happy 13th Birthday to Deepa; I
hope she's doing well.
01/02/13
- Settled down again after my eventful trip to India, and finished my mini documentary
on the Grace Children Home. Went to Batu Caves for the second time this month
(after going a few weeks ago for Pongal) for Thaipusam celebrations (right)
with Vanajah and Shree. Started back at college this week, though it's just
introductory classes, and the Chinese New Year break is coming up too; at least
I've managed to keep myself busy during the break.
25/01/13
- Had an amazing and very busy time whilst I was in India. Flew to Chennai last
Friday and stayed at the Mallika Residency, a budget hotel I knew in the area.
The first day I just spent exploring, getting to know the local area, then the
next day I visited a slum village nearby my hotel and took plenty of photos
round there of the people. I printed out my shots from that morning for them,
but this led to an argument between two women over a photo being cut, which
made things a little awkward. Whilst visiting the slum, I developed a close
relationship with a young girl called Charulatha, who looked like Deepa's doppelganger
(left), and she had a younger brother who looked a lot like Deepa's younger
brother, Rooban.
After two days in Chennai
I took a night train to Bangalore and another to Hubli to visit Pastor K Gandhi
and the Grace Children Home (right) that was under construction. I was treated
very well there and given plenty to eat; I took a lot of photos whilst there,
and even shot a promotional documentary for them, which I hope could help them
in sponsorship. They seemed really happy and blessed that I visited them, and
I'll definitely keep in contact with them to view their progress, and revisit
them if I can go back to India in July or August.
Took the long journey
back to Chennai, where I revisited the slum (left), and decided to do some documentary
shooting there, asking the people in the village to give their testimony of
how life is for them in their slum, with an interesting mix of stories. Met
two young women there, from Germany and Netherlands, do some tuition with some
of the kids outside the Catholic church, the main landmark in the village, with
a number of families, including Charulatha's, being Catholic. I later found
out this slum is on Richie Street, an ironic resemblance to my name.
I budgeted quite well for this trip, just like I did with Laos two years ago,
spending only around £250, which included flights (£125), visas
(£30) and a donation to the Grace Children Home (£30). I'll be taking
a study break from June to August, where I'll be in UK for a month, then I'll
have another several weeks free for another trip to India, of which I may spend
15-20 days there this time, now that I have plenty of contacts there now.
11/01/13 - Finished off my exams this week, and
now have a few weeks break to finally relax. I struggled on a couple of my exams,
though fortunately three of my five subjects were easier subjects... Booked
my flights to UK for June; I saw some discounted flights from Singapore to London
and Paris, but after spending too much time thinking about which was the better
value flight, the prices went up... Been in contact with a Pastor who runs a
children's home in Hubli in India, so I'm making plans to try and visit there
on my trip to India next week.
04/01/13 - It's 2013! Spent the New Year at Taman
Wahyu church to take some photos, then saw Shanthi later in the week, who is
trying to move house. Got exams coming next week, so trying to make sure I'm
ready after missing much of the semester due to my problems.
28/12/12 - I seem to be blogging a lot less than
usual nowadays, which is unfortunate. Since moving house and getting dengue,
my morale has sunk quite a bit, which has affected my hobbies like web design
and photography, plus nothing significant has really happened the past month,
which is a shame considering it's the school holidays. Haven't had as much contact
as I would have liked with Deepa as she's now less accessible with her new family.
So as an alternative, I went to see Santha in Klang, who recently gave birth
to her Nigerian boyfriend's daughter.
One of my main reasons
for seeing Santha was to see Kavari, who I hadn't seen for almost half the year,
and she let me take her Christmas shopping at KLCC (right). The other reason
was to get back in contact with Shanthi, who Ranjitha has been staying with
the past few months. It was nice to see them and the boys again, though Shanthi
seems to want to be keeping a low profile right now. It seems there's going
to be an awkward 'custody battle' as Shanthi wants to take care of Deepa, whilst
Kumar wants to take care of Ranjitha, and I'm the middle man in all this.
Though I got to take
Kavari out for Christmas, I was dissapointed that I didn't have any kids in
tow for the Community Of Praise Taman Wahyu Christmas Service (left). Attending
CPTW is the only Christmas tradition I've managed to maintain in my fifth Christmas
in Malaysia, but it was a shame I had no kids as they gave gift boxes with toys,
clothing and stationary to all the kids there. Still, it's good to be attending
church again after my year long hiatus.
Spent Christmas Day
in Taman Tun, where they did a small house prayer function that day (left).
It's a shame I don't visit the Rumah Panjang village as much any more, but it's
nice to see everyone again in the few times that I do. Got to see Tharani, who
now lives with her father's family, and the dog, Dinky, now has five puppies
(her last lot of three died several months ago). Kugunes new baby, Kavalesh,
has also become much fairer skinned (for an Indian) since the last time I saw
him.
As far as the rest of the month is concerned, I've scraped through my college
studies, despite missing so many classes from dengue; as long as I get pass
grades then that'll suffice for this awful semester. I got a shower heater installed
a few weeks ago, which my father bought for me when he was in Malaysia; it's
much easier to bathe with an instant hot shower now. And also, very pleasingly,
I got my insurance pay out from my dengue treatment a couple of months ago,
and was very pleased with the amount.
So how can I summarise my 2012 with my last blog entry of the year? The year
started great, with nine kids in one house in Taman Tun to focus on helping,
but they all slowly left to stay with other families as the year progressed,
and my future with Deepa is uncertain. Tenancy has been a constant stress most
of the year, but I'll spare the frustrating details now that I'm peacefully
settled in a very nice Master Room. Photography work was great mid-year, with
product photography and several appointments, though I totally lost momentum
after my dengue.
My plans for 2013? I'll have my end of semester exams almost straight away,
then I've got a trip booked to Chennai soon after (my first trip there in over
five years). Planning on taking a study break in June so I can visit UK for
a few weeks, as KLMU don't give long semester breaks, and I'll need some time
out after two solid years of studies. Need to get myself working again, as a
photographer or anything, as my savings dwindle lower every month. Not sure
how my social work stands now that all those kids are scattered across Selangor,
but I'll always do my best for them. Here's hoping 2013 will be prosperous...
30/11/12
- Took Deepa belated Deepavali shopping this past weekend at Times Square, and
gave her RM50 to spend, a quarter of which she spent on buying me Christmas
decorations. She also got herself a top, a watch and a bracelet, as well as
me getting her a 'H' necklace, for 'Huckle', which I bought from Penang. After
covering her Deepavali expenses, I then went to Tesco (and finally got myself
a Tesco Malaysia Clubcard) the next day and spent another RM70 buying things
for her for Christmas. Also booked myself a trip to Chennai in January as I
saw some cheap flights available during my semester break; went to get my visa
at the visa office, the interview felt a little interrogating but they should
accept it this time now that I have a student visa (unlike two years ago).